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I Am Afraid To Stand In The Truth Of My Being,
24 Hours A Day
Next Focus in Divine
Consciousness
Always speak the Truth
of your Heart.
I am afraid to stand in the Truth of my Being,
24 hours a day.
3.) THE "DRAMA"
AS IT APPLIES TO THE SET-UP: |
Ashamed |
Paralyzed |
Deceitful |
Guilty |
Fearful |
Outraged |
Helpless |
Dishonored |
Humiliated |
Abondoned |
Isolated |
Forsaken |
Terrified |
Wretched |
Betrayed |
Enraged |
1.) |
In my physical
body the overt lie is that I am ashamed of my physical body. |
2.) |
In my physical body the overt lie is that I take
my anger out on my physical body. |
3.) |
In my physical body the overt lie is that I act
like I love sex in order to be loved. |
4.) |
In my physical body the overt lie is I need to
look physically attractive to bolster my self-worth and cover
my shame. |
5.) |
In my physical body the overt lie is I eat sweets
compulsively to satisfy my need for Love. |
6.) |
In my physical body the overt lie is I need to
present a strong physical body to control
my world. |
7.) |
In my physical body the overt lie is that I enjoy
abusing my body. |
8.) |
In my physical body the overt lie is I use physical
exhaustion as an exit, a way out. |
9.) |
In my physical body the overt lie is I use illness
to gain sympathy. |
10.) |
In my physical body the overt lie is I abuse
my physical body by eating poorly (eating junk foods) as a substitute
for comfort. |
11.) |
In my physical body the overt lie is if I stand
straight and tall no one will know that I am weak, afraid, and
ashamed. |
12.) |
In my physical body the overt lie is if I use
a lot of makeup, no one will notice that I am old and ugly. |
1.) |
In my physical
body the covert lie is I hate feeling
the heaviness of my physical body. |
2.) |
In my physical body the covert lie is I feel
fat all of the time in my physical body. |
3.) |
In my physical body the covert lie is I do not
love or respect my physical body. |
4.) |
In my physical body the covert lie is I do not
feel connected to my physical body. |
5.) |
In my physical body the covert lie is I feel
useless and unworthy when I am physically tired. |
6.) |
In my physical body the covert lie is I cover
my physical body because I am ashamed of it/me. |
7.) |
In my physical body the covert lie is I am afraid
of establishing a physical connection with a male/female because
I am afraid of failure, of being hurt, of hurting them, or of
hurting me. |
8.) |
In my physical body the covert lie is I can hide
my fear and shame
in my physical body and no one will know I am wounded, shamed,
and abused. |
9.) |
In my physical body the covert lie is I that
hide my sexuality to avoid humiliation and to appear in control. |
10.) |
In my physical body the covert lie is that I
need to hide how much I hate my body. |
11.) |
In my physical body the covert lie is that I
am uncomfortable in my skin. |
12.) |
In my physical body the covert lie is that I
do not know how to relax or create peace
in my body. |
1.) |
In my emotional
body the overt lie is it is not OK to express
emotions. |
2.) |
In my emotional body the overt lie is I do not
feel safe showing my true feelings. |
3.) |
In my emotional body the overt lie is if I show
my true feelings I will not be loved. |
4.) |
In my emotional body the overt lie is that my
feelings must be like everyone else's, or I am wrong. I fear
I will lose my friends. |
5.) |
In my emotional body the overt lie is that I
need to act like I love sex in order to be loved. |
6.) |
In my emotional body the overt lie is that I
have no rage. |
7.) |
In my emotional body the overt lie is that I
need to be dramatic to be noticed. |
8.) |
In my emotional body the overt lie is that others
are interested in my true feelings. |
9.) |
In my emotional body the overt lie is I will
be emotionally hurt and embarrassed if I show my true feelings. |
10.) |
In my emotional body the overt lie is that separating
myself from others will protect me from emotional pain and sadness. |
11.) |
In my emotional body the overt lie is that I
avoid sex because I am not a sexual being. |
12.) |
In my emotional body the overt lie is that I
am afraid of my emotions. |
1.) |
In my emotional
body the covert lie is my feelings
are lies. |
2.) |
In my emotional body the covert lie is that I
feel choked and strangled by my feelings. |
3.) |
In my emotional body the covert lie is that if
I show my true feelings I will be isolated and alone. |
4.) |
In my emotional body the covert lie is that I
only have to feel my "good" feelings. |
5.) |
In my emotional body the covert lie is my feelings
are wrong. |
6.) |
In my emotional body the covert lie is my feelings
are stronger than I am. |
7.) |
In my emotional body the covert lie is I must
reject my feelings before someone else judges me for having them. |
8.) |
In my emotional body the covert lie is I must
suppress my feelings, so I can reason. |
9.) |
In my emotional body the covert lie is I must
smother my feelings and let them out a little at a time, so that
I can be in control. |
10.) |
In my emotional body the covert lie is I cannot
honestly admit my true feelings even to myself. |
11.) |
In my emotional body the covert lie is everything
is fine. |
12.) |
In my emotional body the covert lie is that someone
else will fill my emotional needs. |
1.) |
In my mental
body the overt lie is that I must show how smart I am in
order to have power over others. |
2.) |
In my mental body the overt lie is I must show
how smart I am to be loved. |
3.) |
In my mental body the overt lie is I feel my
self-worth only when I connect mentally with other people. |
4.) |
In my mental body the overt lie is if I show
my parents how smart I am they will love me. |
5.) |
In my mental body the overt lie is if I am smarter
than my siblings, my parents will love me more. |
6.) |
In my mental body the overt lie is if I am smarter
than my spouse, then I can control
him/her. |
7.) |
In my mental body the overt lie is if I am smarter
than my children, I can make them do what I say. |
8.) |
In my mental body the overt lie is that I have
nothing interesting to say. |
9.) |
In my mental body the overt lie is I can work
endlessly in my head and still be efficient. |
10.) |
In my mental body the overt lie is that I am
superior to others. |
11.) |
In my mental body the overt lie is that I have
released my need to know. |
12.) |
In my mental body the overt lie is that magical
thinking works. |
1.) |
In my mental
body the covert
lie is that my mental body is the strongest of all my bodies. |
2.) |
In my mental body the covert lie is my thoughts
damn me. |
3.) |
In my mental body the covert lie is that I am
stupid. |
4.) |
In my mental body the covert lie is I am the
prisoner of my thoughts. |
5.) |
In my mental body the covert lie is I use my
mental ability to deny my feelings. |
6.) |
In my mental body the covert lie is I use my
mental ability to cut-off confrontations. |
7.) |
In my mental body the covert lie is I can hide
from the Truth of
my Being by escaping
into my mental fantasies. |
8.) |
In my mental body the covert lie is that I can
control life with
the strength of my will power. |
9.) |
In my mental body the covert lie is that I believe
everything in my life is real and not illusion. |
10.) |
In my mental body the covert lie is that all
"knowing" comes from my brain and reason. |
11.) |
In my mental body the covert lie is I can think
my way past my fears. |
12.) |
In my mental body the covert lie is I can think
my way past sorrow. |
1.) |
In my spiritual
body the overt
lie is I must pray on my knees, so others will think I am holy/spiritual. |
2.) |
In my spiritual body the overt lie is I must
speak to/of God, so
others will think I have a connection with God. |
3.) |
In my spiritual body the overt lie is portraying
the image of spirituality will protect me. |
4.) |
In my spiritual body the overt lie is that I
am not spiritually
arrogant. |
5.) |
In my spiritual body the overt lie is that my
spirituality is my sanctuary/my hiding place. |
6.) |
In my spiritual body the overt lie is that spirituality
is bullshit. |
7.) |
In my spiritual body the overt lie is that I
create suffering and pain so I can be a martyr. |
8.) |
In my spiritual body the overt lie is that spirituality
must look a certain way to be right. |
9.) |
In my spiritual body the overt lie is that I
am open to everyone's spiritual path. |
10.) |
In my spiritual body the overt lie is if I pray
and do good deeds on Earth, I will ascend to Heaven. |
11.) |
In my spiritual body the overt lie is God can
not breathe Life into me. |
12.) |
In my spiritual body the overt lie is that God
kills. |
1.) |
In my spiritual
body the covert
lie is I must pray in order to be forgiven. |
2.) |
In my spiritual body the overt lie is if I can
connect with God in
the right way, He/She/It will protect me. |
3.) |
In my spiritual body the covert lie is it is
not OK to believe in God in my own way. |
4.) |
In my spiritual body the covert lie is I am not
one with God. |
5.) |
In my spiritual body the covert lie is I do not
have communion
with my Soul. |
6.) |
In my spiritual body the covert lie is that I
must be illumined/enlightened to be loved. |
7.) |
In my spiritual body the covert lie is that sex
is irreverent. |
8.) |
In my spiritual body the covert lie is that I
don't deserve to trust my Soul. |
9.) |
In my spiritual body the covert lie is that I
would be happy living on a mountaintop and meditating. |
10.) |
In my spiritual body the covert lie is that I
would be spiritually connected if I follow the right guru. |
11.) |
In my spiritual body the covert lie is that I
will die and that is the end. |
12.) |
In my spiritual body the covert lie is that I
must be forgiven by a Higher Power that is outside of myself. |
My Worst
End Scenario:
I have formed an impenetrable barrier around my Truth.
This icy, concrete shroud entombs me. Within this cold hard shell,
I am separated from my Truth, from myself, from God,
which I am. I believe all my lies; so too, I believe
and live by the lies I have adopted from my church, parents,
siblings, society, and the Collective
Consciousness. I accept all these lies as the Truth of my
Being. I never seek
to reveal, disclose, or acknowledge my Truth to myself, others,
or God. I fear punishment,
abandonment, isolation, ruin, and physical/emotional/mental/spiritual
death. I continue
playing out my life as a weak, helpless, enraged victim. I live my death
in this cold hard tomb, devoid of Love
from others, from myself, from God. I live alone, and die alone.
I hate myself to Death.
1.) |
Who/What imprinted you? And How? |
1.) |
My church imprinted me with the lie that I am
a sinner and I will always sin, because I am human and alive.
I am guilty by default. |
2.) |
My church imprinted me with the lie that I must
suffer. |
3.) |
My church imprinted me with the lie that I cannot
cleanse/forgive myself, only the church can. |
4.) |
My church imprinted me with the lie that I must
believe everything the church says. |
5.) |
My siblings imprinted me with the lie that I
should hate myself because everyone else does, even God. |
6.) |
My mother imprinted me with the lie that I am
not as good or worthy as her other children. |
7.) |
My mother imprinted me with the lie that I must
keep the family secrets. |
8.) |
My mother imprinted me with the lie that I must
be quiet. |
9.) |
My father imprinted me with the lie that I must
be afraid of the world. |
10.) |
My family imprinted me with the lie that I must
lie to protect myself. |
11.) |
My family imprinted me with the lie that my true
feelings can be/should be denied. |
12.) |
My father imprinted me with the lie that there
is no beauty in my inner Being. |
2.) |
The Payoff.
Name it.
Name the Negative Power that feeds the Payoff. |
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The Payoff I get from being afraid to stand in
the Truth of my Being 24 hours a day
is that I never have to acknowledge or take responsibility for
who I truly am. I change my "Truth" to fit every situation.
By my lies and self-deceit I attempt to gain favor, stay in good
graces, manipulate,
and control others'
love for me. I am willing to devastate and destroy
myself to receive and maintain love from others. The negative
power behind these statements is my Rage,
which is the addiction that runs my entire life. |
3.) |
What I need to change
inside myself. |
1.) |
I need to change
the lie that I am unworthy into the Truth
that I am worthy. |
2.) |
I need to change the lie that I am physically
ugly into the Truth that I am beautiful inside and out. |
3.) |
I need to change the lie that I am a helpless
victim into the Truth that I am able to make full, Conscious
decisions for my highest good, in every moment. |
4.) |
I need to change the lie that I am a worthless
sinner into the Truth that I am whole and perfect and filled
with God's Love. |
5.) |
I need to change the lie that I must control
and manipulate
others into the Truth that I love myself and love others. |
6.) |
I need to change the lie that I must suffer by
manifesting physical/mental/emotional/spiritual pain to reach
Enlightenment into the Truth that I am already there, at Soul level, 24 hours
a day, unceasingly. |
7.) |
I need to change the lie that I must experience
suffering and pain in others into the Truth that I have compassion
for the suffering and pain of others without bringing it into
my physical body. |
8.) |
I need to change the lie that I am not worthy
of Love into the Truth that I am Love. |
9.) |
I need to change the lie that I must be smart
to be loved into the Truth that I love and accept myself just
the way I am. |
10.) |
I need to change the lie that I hate my physical
body into the Truth that I love and accept my physical body just
the way it is. |
11.) |
I need to change the lie that my compulsions
and depressions are part of my nature and are unchangeable into
the Truth that in every moment I can choose Self-Love
over Self-Destruction. |
12.) |
I need to change the lie that I must not feel
my true feelings into the Truth that my true feelings reflect
the Truth of My Being. |
1.) |
Like my mother I believe the lie that I need
to lie to protect myself. |
2.) |
Like my mother I believe the lie that I must
acquiesce and hide from the Truth
of my Being, in order
to gain LOVE. |
3.) |
Like my mother I believe the lie that I must
make others happy to make me happy. |
4.) |
Like my father I believe the lie that what I
don't see/feel does not exist. |
5.) |
Like my father I believe the lie that I must
keep all family secrets by lying. |
6.) |
Like my father I believe the lie that I can hide
my pain, my rage,
my anger. |
7.) |
Like my parents I believe the lie that if I had
more money/love/possessions/sex that I would be truly happy. |
8.) |
Like my parents I believe the lie that there
is no unconditional Love. There is always a price. |
9.) |
Like my parents I believe the lie that I am not
perfect. |
10.) |
Like my parents I believe the lie that my lies
are Truth. |
11.) |
Like my siblings I believe the lie that someone
must always be dominant in a relationship. |
12.) |
Like the church I believe the lie that I must
be perfect and good in order to know God. |
5.) |
Triangulations: |
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Show at least 3 triangles with you in each of
the three positions: Victim (V), Savior (S), and Persecutor (P). |
1.) |
My mother taught me - "If you can't say
anything nice, don't say anything at all." |
2.) |
My mother taught me - "How dare you lie
to me! Why do you always lie to me? How can I trust
you when you always lie to me." |
3.) |
My mother taught me - "You don't know what
you're talking about. Don't you dare say that. That's not the
truth." |
4.) |
My mother taught me - "Why can't you be
more like (someone else)?" |
5.) |
My mother taught me - "You'll never get
a spouse if you're not more attractive." |
6.) |
My father taught me - "If you can't do it
right, don't do it at all." |
7.) |
My father taught me - "If you want it done
right, you have to do it yourself." |
8.) |
My father taught me - "Children should be
seen and not heard." |
9.) |
My father taught me - "I don't care what
you think. What you think doesn't count." |
10.) |
My father taught me - "If you just try hard
enough, you can accomplish anything. Put your feelings aside
and just do it." |
11.) |
My parents taught me - "I know what's best
for you." |
12.) |
My parents taught me - "You don't feel that
way. You have no reason to feel that way!" |
13.) |
My parents taught me - "You should be ashamed
of yourself." |
14.) |
My parents taught me - "A good wife/husband
should always do what her/his spouse wants." |
15.) |
My parents taught me - "A good mother/father
should always sacrifice her/himself for the children's sake." |
16.) |
My church taught me - "Only God
can save you." |
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Symbols
from Soul:
Images given from Soul are that of two
hands on an oar, paddling a canoe. The canoe is in a swift, clear
river. The river goes on endlessly. All is peaceful and clear
- no worries, no thoughts, no effort, only the pure moment.
The river drops down at the horizon. In this drop, the canoe
disappears. The person in the canoe plunges into the water, becoming
one with the water. There is no concern about breathing; breath
is within the water. The water carries the person into a warm,
dark underwater cave. The person curls into a fetal position.
At peace, resting,
floating. The person disappears. A undulating snake appears within
the waters. The snake rises upward through the waters. As the
snake reaches the top of the water, the surroundings become light
and the snake changes into the person again, extending his/her
arms, rising up, into the Light, into God.
The message from Soul
is that the water/river represents Truth.
Truth is clear energy. The vibration of Truth is high and has
its own momentum. Like water, Truth is quiet and still and totally
supportive. Like water, Truth is open, yet completely surrounds
and supports.
The person in the image is you, or me, or
all of us. We each paddle our canoe furiously, hoping to get
away from our Truth.
The sudden drop of the canoe brings us from the ego level into
the journey to our Soul.
We plunge into the depths of our Heart,
returning to our Wisdom
and Love. There, we
become One with our Truth. At peace,
resting, floating.
The snake is a symbol
which represents the healing/transformation energy that brings
us to our Truth.
Like the snake, we shed the skin of our lies/illusions
in order to transform, and grow closer to our Truth.
The snake rising from the water symbolizes
our emergence into our Wholeness. The snake, reaching the top
of the water (or the wholeness of our Truth),
changes back into the person at the beginning of the vision,
who then metamorphosizes into Light, into God.
As we reach our Truth,
and are able to stand in the Truth of our Being,
24 hours a day, we, too, become One with God.
God and Truth are One. |
a.) |
I will change
the lie that I am not connected to my Soul
into the Truth that
communion with
my Soul awaits 24 hours a day. In every situation, I will go
into the Serene
Center of my Being within my Heart, where Soul dwells. By
doing so, I choose to have Soul, rather than ego, make my decisions. |
b.) |
I will change the lie that it is okay for me
to lie into the Truth that lying diminishes and shames
me. Before I speak, I will stop, reference
my Soul to find my Truth in that situation, and then speak
this Truth. |
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